tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23752104903689654392024-03-08T05:37:41.724-08:00Alliance Report: Page 2Alliance Report: Page 2http://www.blogger.com/profile/06458028626096291930noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2375210490368965439.post-83012614400574768952012-03-02T08:37:00.002-08:002012-03-02T08:37:58.289-08:00Knowing if or when you should hire a private investigator to find traces of infidelity<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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Infidelity not only rocks your
relationship, emotionally too it is very jolting. Just imagine, suddenly you
feel that the ground of faith and trustworthiness you stand so confidently upon
is actually developing cracks and can crumble any time. Do you want that ground
to crumble and for you to fall into a hole, or do you want to take some
corrective measures to salvage your honor, self-respect, sense of fairness and
if possible, your relationship, whether you are married or living with
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Hiring a private investigator to
find whether your partner is having another relationship (even multiple
relationships for that matter) can be an excruciating decision. It is a big step
towards accepting that something disastrous is taking shape and it is not just
a nagging doubt. You won’t hire a private investigator, for instance, if your
husband misses a dinner and cannot come up with a plausible reason; you will
hire a private investigator if there is a litany of tell-tale signs.</div>
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When you hire a private
investigator to find instances of infidelity it doesn’t mean that your spouse
or your partner is actually cheating. Maybe there are some circumstances that
are creating such a notion but you feel that confronting your partner would
damage your relationship forever. So it is better to take outside help and get
your doubts eliminated. Even if there are some real chances of cheating, it is
always better to have your evidence ready in case you need to resort to legal
help later on.</div>
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Listed below are 5 reasons when it is time to hire a
detective and get your doubts sorted out, whether they are real or perceived.</div>
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<span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><b>Sudden
decrease in physical intimacy:</b> Although there can be many reasons for this
the primary reason, often it is an attraction for another person. Just make
sure it is not some stressful situation at the workplace or in their career.</div>
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<span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><b>Multiple
expenses that cannot be traced:</b> Are you finding receipts and bills you
cannot make sense of in his or her possession? Does his or her credit card
statement have multiple untraceable entries? Is money being withdrawn from one
of your bank accounts without your being told? These are very sure tell-tale
signs that your partner is brewing his or her broth somewhere else.</div>
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<span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><b>Sudden
change in appearance:</b> If your partner has suddenly changed the way he or
she dresses up and grooms his or her hair, and on an ongoing basis, then you
should make a serious note of it, especially when you’re not a part of that
appearance.</div>
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<span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><b>Disinterest
in family and family affairs:</b> Is your spouse spending less and less time
with the kids? Is he or she getting impatient with them? Is he or she
neglecting the everyday household chores without apparent reason? Does he or
she prefer to remain aloof while constantly talking on the phone? It definitely
shows that your partner is drifting apart.</div>
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<span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><b>Appearance
of subtle signs only you can feel:</b> Have you caught a sudden whiff of odor
you have never detected on your partner, multiple times? Has the way your
partner used to laugh at your jokes and comments altered in a weird sense? Is
he or she less comfortable changing clothes in front of you? Although such
signs are not very obvious, if you have been living with a person for many
years, you can easily detect them.</div>
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Remember that these tell-tale signs don’t always mean that
your spouse or your partner is indulging in infidelity and hence you need to
hire a private investigator, but all of a sudden, if a majority of these
tell-tale signs begin to manifest, then perhaps you should consider calling up
one. In any case, the final decision has to be yours and you should be ready to
face whatever truth the investigator brings up, hopefully, a truth that
contradicts your fears.</div>Alliance Report: Page 2http://www.blogger.com/profile/06458028626096291930noreply@blogger.com0